as most of you would know from my recent forums i have a 3 year old step son who we have every other 7 days (7x7) .. i just found out that we are expecting another boy, im 5 months pregnant and also work full time (8-5 mon-fri) my stepson stays with this grandmother while we work, he always has since he was born, im not too fond of how she has raised him, he is very jealous when it comes to her, she does not disipline him and when she does, he doesnt listen and she ends up giving in anyways, when i correct in front of her she gets very mad and emotional and states that it hurts her feelings to hear him cry for her, of course he is crying for her, im fusing him, he will cry for anyone around that could help him lol,, in my defense when i say fuse, i do raise my voice but i rarly spank... anyways, she has 2 other grandchildren and if they want something, or if she gives them attention over my stepson, he crys, screams, hits them and bits them, im scared that when baby is born, if i let her babysit, what will happen when baby is crying for bottle and stepson wants a juice or to go outside, when grandmoms picks baby up, what will my stepson do ?? if he hits and bites the other children, how do i know he wont do that to the baby ?? im not worry about how he will act in our house, because he doesnt fight for our attention, even when other children are around, but when he is with her, he is too jealous,, i am thinking of putting baby in daycare, but that will be so out of the way, to drop one off at daycare and the other at grandmaws.. does anyone else have a jealous child like this ?? with them or grandmaw ?