Thank you for your advice. I guess what I am trying to say is I hope my SS decides to make some goals. We have talked about college, car, budgeting, etc. I just haven't seen any effort on his part towards any goals. Don't get me wrong. He is a great young adult. I should be thankful - at least he set one goal and reached it - he applied for 20 jobs, interviewed for 2 and accepted one.
Dad and I don't mind taking him to/from work everyday but it does get old sometimes when we see him waste a lot of money. We sat down to develop a budget together with SS's input on what he expects to spend per week. We included a plan for what a car may cost, estimated car tags, insurance, etc. Dad and I are willing to contribute and have saved some money already towards his car. We are not turning over the money we contribute until the day of purchase - Otherwise, SS will just spend it all...