i have a 3 year old stepson, who we share joint custody with, we take him 7 days, she has him 7 days, his mom has been working a very crazy work scheduale since he was born( working late hours, holidays, weekends) now, finally, she has a normal 8-5 job, which is working out great !! But now that he is getting older and understanding that we share visitations it seems like he is abusing it, like when he wants something he cant have, if we tell him no he says he wants his mom,, when it's time for bed and he doesn't want to sleep, he crys for his mom, he only does this when he doesn't get his way, i don't know what he does when he is with her, meaning if he asks for his dad, but he does it with us, my husband is very hurt by this, because we have been his main caregivers since he was born and now my husband feels like he doesn;t want to be with us,, i know thats not true, he is only 3 and knows what he can get away with and knows that if he goes with his mom then she'll give it to him,, we just dont know how to break this habit before it gets worse !! Not only that but im 5 months pregnant,, im wondering if that will make it worse, like he will feel that we dont show enough attention and at his mom its just them 2,, can someone please help !!! we do stuff with him, i dont understand, he mostly does it when he wants candy instead of food.. i tell him that he has to eat first and he says no he wants his mom,, can anyone help !!!