Hi . Need help , support and advice ....my 19 year old son does not respect me financially . I'm worried about him . He spends his monthly wage within a week then asks me for money ...I'm single and support myself . I provide him with a home and food and lend him money when I can . He has no respect for money and gets very demanding to me if I cannot lend him money .....I feel as if I have to say no to him so he can learn but I struggle with the guilt . He earns his own money but just doesn't make it last . He gives me the guilt trip when I say no and says his life is sh*t...it depresses me ....I just don't know if I'm doing the right thing or not . Any advice from anyone ?