<t>My 13 year old Daughter informed us this week that she “thinks she is Bisexual”. Both parents are very supportive of LGBT. I have two gay nephews, and one is a drag queen, so LGBT is openly discussed in our family. My concern is the timing of her announcement. <br/>
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She has five very close friends, all female. One just confided in my Daughter and one of her other friends, that she is a Lesbian. So in turn my Daughter came out to her and one of that same close friend. This other close friend also came out as a Bisexual. I find it usual that three close friends all decided to come out at the same time without any pre discussion. <br/>
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Also when my DD came out, my wife asked her how long she has known, and DD’s response was “ I have been thinking about it for about a month”. I would have assumed that she would have thought about it or struggled with it for a little bit of time before coming out. I am very proud that she did confide in us and both of us have had discussions with her separately and explained how , we will always love her and this announcement does not change her in any way in our eyes. We are only concerned with her being safe and loved. I explained the Human Sexuality Pendulum Theory- Just like Skin color and othere human attributes sexual preference is like a pendulum scale and every one falls on the scale at a different place, fully straight, fully homosexual, Bisexual, and everything in between and it was all natural and normal. <br/>
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Now she wanted to make a family announcement. Which I find strange also. In less than a week, she came out to two friends, mother and father and now wanted to announce to the (very large ) extended family. <br/>
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Any advice? I hate to ask but could this just be a phase? I read (on the internet) that a lot of teenage girls are associating themselves as Bisexual early on, possibly because they are either curious or are still finding and defining themselves. I read that teenage girls often develop Girl crushes because of the emotional aspect of the relationship ( my daughter is very shy and emotional) and because teenage boys are jerks.</t>
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She has five very close friends, all female. One just confided in my Daughter and one of her other friends, that she is a Lesbian. So in turn my Daughter came out to her and one of that same close friend. This other close friend also came out as a Bisexual. I find it usual that three close friends all decided to come out at the same time without any pre discussion. <br/>
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Also when my DD came out, my wife asked her how long she has known, and DD’s response was “ I have been thinking about it for about a month”. I would have assumed that she would have thought about it or struggled with it for a little bit of time before coming out. I am very proud that she did confide in us and both of us have had discussions with her separately and explained how , we will always love her and this announcement does not change her in any way in our eyes. We are only concerned with her being safe and loved. I explained the Human Sexuality Pendulum Theory- Just like Skin color and othere human attributes sexual preference is like a pendulum scale and every one falls on the scale at a different place, fully straight, fully homosexual, Bisexual, and everything in between and it was all natural and normal. <br/>
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Now she wanted to make a family announcement. Which I find strange also. In less than a week, she came out to two friends, mother and father and now wanted to announce to the (very large ) extended family. <br/>
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Any advice? I hate to ask but could this just be a phase? I read (on the internet) that a lot of teenage girls are associating themselves as Bisexual early on, possibly because they are either curious or are still finding and defining themselves. I read that teenage girls often develop Girl crushes because of the emotional aspect of the relationship ( my daughter is very shy and emotional) and because teenage boys are jerks.</t>