Ttc...

[Xero]

I suppose there's enough logic in that haha. But whatever age you guys are, your kids are lucky to have you so don't let that bother you. There's nothing wrong with it at all.

 

[IADad]

as long as we don't do something really "old persony" like give them a subscription to "Reader's Digest" for graduation...hahaha (kinda cracked myself up with that one.)

 

[Jewel]

congrats, hope all goes well for u and ur family!

 

[Antoinette]

as long as we don't do something really "old persony" like give them a subscription to "Reader's Digest" for graduation...hahaha (kinda cracked myself up with that one.)

hahahahahahahahahaha <----- nuff said LOL

 

[Jordy]

good luck Xero... i hope you get your wish very soon

 

[Xero]

Thank you Jordy... I'm almost chickening out though. lol

 

[Jordy]

chickening out?? why?????

 

[Xero]

I don't know maybe I should wait longer!!! Maybe Eli is too young. And the thought of being pregnant makes me nervous. lol!!

 

[xox.ilu.xox]

i think the age gap between ur kids would be perfect xero! my hubby and his sister are 5 years apart, and they have nothing in common cuz she was out of high school when he started haha. id do it

 

[Jordy]

i think the age difference is great. they are close enough that they will grow up to be friends

 

[Xero]

Well thank you! Maybe you guys are right.

 

[IADad]

there are different pros and cons. If Eli were a little older, then he could be of more help and there'd be less chance of much sibling rivlary, but there is the idea of having them closer together, then they can be close in age, play iwth each other a little more, you get to condense diaper age down to a smaller span of years etc.

There is no right or wrong time. Like the old saying about waiting to have children until you can afford, them, it never happens. Likewise, if you wait, then what happens if you don't conceive right away. trust your gut on this one and don't over-think it, is my suggestion.

 

[Xero]

lol I know its so difficult. We're thinking we might just wait a couple more months, that way Eli and #2 will be at least 4 years apart. Its not that long to wait. I don't think 5 years is necessary, but 4 years to me sounds just right.

 

[bssage]

What are you some kind of sharp shooter??

IMHO your overthinking this. Just start shooting from the hip (pun intended) Get a bottle of Jager put on some DEvo and get hormonal and get jiggy with it.

 

[Xero]

lol!!!!

Jager makes me sick! I hate Jager! Vodka, sometimes Soco yeah... but Jager! Ew.

What is Devo??

 

[IADad]

What is Devo??

ROFLMAO!

The day the 80's died.....man that's funny....

and I agree about Jager....try my DW's fav drink - Rasp Stoli on coke...(I perfer Stoli martini muself, but it's a nice girl drink with a punch...

 

[bssage]

lol!!!!

Jager makes me sick! I hate Jager! Vodka, sometimes Soco yeah... but Jager! Ew.

What is Devo??

lol

do a search for "devo whip it" and get ready for the party

 

[Xero]

ohh my god lol

 

[Jordy]

hahaha... i have never met someone who hasn't heard of Divo... Whip it is now successfully in my head though thanks bssage LOL

 

[Xero]

Well I recognize the song. I guess I just didn't know who the band was.