Thank you Kaytee.
I have sent PMs to several others asking them to keep their post PG or PG-13 in terms of language they use to express themselves and they have agreed and understood that this is a <U>parenting</U> forum.
I've send very friendly PMs on even "Oh Shit" comments because it is where the hill starts sliding down in the wrong direction. My thinking is not to let the issue creep forward in very small steps and we find people posting truly crude and rude stuff which is only slightly worse than what was posted the day before, which was, again, only incrementally worse than the day before that, etc, etc. Things don't go south instantly, it creeps slowly in that direction.