My ex-wife and I have a parenting plan in which we take care of the children weekly. I get a week, then she gets a week. We have a 10 year old girl and a 6 year old boy.
Recently my daughter told me some news that disturbed me. She said our punishments were nothing, and her mom's were way worse. Apparently she has been making the kids sit in pushup position above a bucket or pot of water for several minutes, and if they can't make it they fall in the water. I confronted my ex and she said she did, and she is quite proud of it too... I also know that she or her husband spanks with objects, usually a belt.
So my question is how does everyone feel about the pushup position punishment with water, and how does everyone feel about spanking with objects. I personally dislike both... but I am curious to see if this is common or not.
Thank you!!
Recently my daughter told me some news that disturbed me. She said our punishments were nothing, and her mom's were way worse. Apparently she has been making the kids sit in pushup position above a bucket or pot of water for several minutes, and if they can't make it they fall in the water. I confronted my ex and she said she did, and she is quite proud of it too... I also know that she or her husband spanks with objects, usually a belt.
So my question is how does everyone feel about the pushup position punishment with water, and how does everyone feel about spanking with objects. I personally dislike both... but I am curious to see if this is common or not.
Thank you!!