Hi Everyone. This is my first post. I need some advice about what to do with my wife. My wife and I have been married for 5 years. She has an eleven year old girl that she brought into the relationship. I've been a pretty good step father to her. She is a really good kid. When my son was born we decided that she would stay home and take care of him while I work. My son is now five and ready to start kindergarten. My wife doesn't seem to want to go back to work now (even though we really need the money). I am only asking her to get a part time job during the hours that he is in school. She says that's too unpredictably. She says "what if I have to work late and don't make it home to see him off the bus?" She also refuses to work nights because she says they are all dead end jobs. I'm working 45 - 50 hours per week and by the end of the day I am completely wore out. I'm not sure if she has a point or if she just wants to stay home and let me bring all the money in. Remember we are just scraping by with the bills. I mean you can't make someone get a job if they really don't want to. I want our lives to be better and have nicer things. If she doesn't go back to work I fear we never will.
So the big question is.....what should I do?
Thank you,
Scott
So the big question is.....what should I do?
Thank you,
Scott