Let me start by saying when I say physical, I don't mean hitting. LONG story short I have a 5 year old that is beginning to cause a lot of problems at school (day care).
Now, I imagine some of what happens may be misunderstood or blown out of proportion by the teachers there. But it's a daily occurance now that needs to be changed quickly.
What we have is a lot of rough play (resulting in kids and he himself getting injured). We have lashing out sometimes, and not listening. He ends up in time out more than once a day and has become the motivating factor in the school doing Traffic Light Days (red - bad, yellow - not good, green - good).
So my thought process is this and tell me if this sounds ok. I was in the military... did 4 years in the Infantry. I want to run my kid through a little bit of a boot camp. This would entail some running, and general fitness. I'd instruct him on proper behaviors at home and school, and try to wear him out in the mornings.
What I really need to know is how good is physical training for behavior correction? Is there an age at which this might be too soon? Is this even a good idea?
One our friends has a son about his age who they have sent to a psychologist that runs a program like this. It consists of a number of push up when having done something wrong, and then a general wear out session. Seems decent but I don't think I need to pay to do the same thing at home.
Thoughts?
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On a side note... I've often thought when it would be a good idea to start my son in Martial Arts. I took karate back when I was his age or slightly later. I then went off and on until I was about 16 with various schools and arts. Is 5 years old too soon for that? I'd be thinking of incorporating that into this "program" with the emphasis on this stuff NOT being for use outside of the home.
Now, I imagine some of what happens may be misunderstood or blown out of proportion by the teachers there. But it's a daily occurance now that needs to be changed quickly.
What we have is a lot of rough play (resulting in kids and he himself getting injured). We have lashing out sometimes, and not listening. He ends up in time out more than once a day and has become the motivating factor in the school doing Traffic Light Days (red - bad, yellow - not good, green - good).
So my thought process is this and tell me if this sounds ok. I was in the military... did 4 years in the Infantry. I want to run my kid through a little bit of a boot camp. This would entail some running, and general fitness. I'd instruct him on proper behaviors at home and school, and try to wear him out in the mornings.
What I really need to know is how good is physical training for behavior correction? Is there an age at which this might be too soon? Is this even a good idea?
One our friends has a son about his age who they have sent to a psychologist that runs a program like this. It consists of a number of push up when having done something wrong, and then a general wear out session. Seems decent but I don't think I need to pay to do the same thing at home.
Thoughts?
EDIT:
On a side note... I've often thought when it would be a good idea to start my son in Martial Arts. I took karate back when I was his age or slightly later. I then went off and on until I was about 16 with various schools and arts. Is 5 years old too soon for that? I'd be thinking of incorporating that into this "program" with the emphasis on this stuff NOT being for use outside of the home.
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