My ex and i split up when our daughter was 3. She is now 7.
Not my ideal parenting situation but i have learned to adapt as best i can. Her mom and i agree on most things when it comes to nutrition and school work... but there are certain things in her house that i do not agree with. Depending on how severe, i may not even bring the issue up because it will only case a finger pointing session between the mom and I.
However, i can't help but be alarmed at the latest discovery.
As of this summer, it seems that the only time my daughter bathes at her mom's house is in the shower with her 36yr old mom.
She is with her mom 4 days of the week.
I can't help but think that this is unhealthy. at the age of 7, my daughter is much too aware of anatomy and sexuality...and should be learning about privacy and things you do in private. I feel that bathing is one of them.
Maybe if this was a once in a while thing but this is an every night thing...to the point that she doesn't want to bathe at my house because she would rather do it at her mom's... with her mom...
Am i Crazy in thinking this is wrong? I can't help but think this will cause peculiar issues down the road.
If i am not crazy in thinking this, how would i defend my point of view from a professional's point of view?
Thanks.
Not my ideal parenting situation but i have learned to adapt as best i can. Her mom and i agree on most things when it comes to nutrition and school work... but there are certain things in her house that i do not agree with. Depending on how severe, i may not even bring the issue up because it will only case a finger pointing session between the mom and I.
However, i can't help but be alarmed at the latest discovery.
As of this summer, it seems that the only time my daughter bathes at her mom's house is in the shower with her 36yr old mom.
She is with her mom 4 days of the week.
I can't help but think that this is unhealthy. at the age of 7, my daughter is much too aware of anatomy and sexuality...and should be learning about privacy and things you do in private. I feel that bathing is one of them.
Maybe if this was a once in a while thing but this is an every night thing...to the point that she doesn't want to bathe at my house because she would rather do it at her mom's... with her mom...
Am i Crazy in thinking this is wrong? I can't help but think this will cause peculiar issues down the road.
If i am not crazy in thinking this, how would i defend my point of view from a professional's point of view?
Thanks.