Okay, so DS1 has been intent on on-upping DS2 multiple times a day. I understand it's his way of establishing his superiority. I get that big brothers feel the need to put down their little brothers. We've been handling it by saying, "Dude, really? Is there any need to do that? How would you feel is someone did that to you.?"
Example, this morning on the way to school, he had taken his "skills ball" (a small soccer ball) with him. DS 2 pipes up saying, "I didn't know you had a skills ball too." and DS1 says "Yes, I got one, and mine is more expensive than yours." really? what was the point of that maiking your brother feel small and insignificant. I was so ticked.
Any ideas for other creative ways to approach this behavior? I know it's a phase, do I just stay consistent and correct it as we go?
Thoughts?
Example, this morning on the way to school, he had taken his "skills ball" (a small soccer ball) with him. DS 2 pipes up saying, "I didn't know you had a skills ball too." and DS1 says "Yes, I got one, and mine is more expensive than yours." really? what was the point of that maiking your brother feel small and insignificant. I was so ticked.
Any ideas for other creative ways to approach this behavior? I know it's a phase, do I just stay consistent and correct it as we go?
Thoughts?