<r><FONT font="Arial"><s></s>I knew this would happen someday.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Okay…so short version is I was married for 2 years, and for those 2 years I was step dad to her son who was 2 or so…and I grew to love him as my own son, and I was all he knew as dad. He is 5 now. Real dad is out of the picture. The divorce was nasty, and the second she stopped getting money, she stopped letting me see my son. It was for the best I guess because she was always manipulating him to hurt me and stuff. She was cheating on me with someone when it all went down.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Anyway…our divorce was final 8 months ago, and today she emails me that my son misses me, and can I see him?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>What do you think?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>I think: <e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Why now? Surely after the divorce he would have been asking about me….after 8 months, wouldn’t he get used to his new life?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Her boyfriend dumped her lying cheating self and now she’s all alone again.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s> Has this happened to anyone? Asides from my own feelings being hurt all over again if I decide to be a part of his life just to have him ripped from me again…does this negatively impact my son at all? I don’t want him to hate me when it’s really all up to her when he sees me.I don't want to put my own selfish needs to see him above his.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Thanks!<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Okay…so short version is I was married for 2 years, and for those 2 years I was step dad to her son who was 2 or so…and I grew to love him as my own son, and I was all he knew as dad. He is 5 now. Real dad is out of the picture. The divorce was nasty, and the second she stopped getting money, she stopped letting me see my son. It was for the best I guess because she was always manipulating him to hurt me and stuff. She was cheating on me with someone when it all went down.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Anyway…our divorce was final 8 months ago, and today she emails me that my son misses me, and can I see him?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>What do you think?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>I think: <e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Why now? Surely after the divorce he would have been asking about me….after 8 months, wouldn’t he get used to his new life?<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Her boyfriend dumped her lying cheating self and now she’s all alone again.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Arial"><s></s> <e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
<FONT font="Arial"><s></s> Has this happened to anyone? Asides from my own feelings being hurt all over again if I decide to be a part of his life just to have him ripped from me again…does this negatively impact my son at all? I don’t want him to hate me when it’s really all up to her when he sees me.I don't want to put my own selfish needs to see him above his.<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>Thanks!<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Arial"><s></s>X<e></e></FONT><e>[/SIZE]</SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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