He is turning 26 this year and does contribute to the household but we discovered recently that he has been lying about paying what he is supposed to pay. As part of the deal of living home he has to pay rent. Instead of paying us directly he was just going to pay the storage units we have.
A few months ago we found out he wasn't paying and almost had our stuff auctioned off. He said he will get back on track and just because I was skeptical called one of the storage units, found out he never did make a payment and another one is a few months behind.
I think the only solution I can think of is to have him pay us directly and then we pay the storage. The problem is we are so far behind and did not budget for this large cost.
Every month I have to remind him to pay his portion of the phone bill, a few times it has caused the account to be late.
Recently he added his car to our insurance, which means we have to collect money from him every month, which at this point I'm not too optimistic about.
I should say I am the step dad, so I have never been a good disciplinary figure which may explain some of this. His mother is very stern with him and loving and has spoken to him too many times to count, but I don't know how to get him to stop.
A few months ago we found out he wasn't paying and almost had our stuff auctioned off. He said he will get back on track and just because I was skeptical called one of the storage units, found out he never did make a payment and another one is a few months behind.
I think the only solution I can think of is to have him pay us directly and then we pay the storage. The problem is we are so far behind and did not budget for this large cost.
Every month I have to remind him to pay his portion of the phone bill, a few times it has caused the account to be late.
Recently he added his car to our insurance, which means we have to collect money from him every month, which at this point I'm not too optimistic about.
I should say I am the step dad, so I have never been a good disciplinary figure which may explain some of this. His mother is very stern with him and loving and has spoken to him too many times to count, but I don't know how to get him to stop.