i think we should explain ourselves as much as possible to kids and not just say "because i said so" when they ask a question. i feel like we should think about it and try to explain it to them in a delicate and honest fashion. when you give them "because i said so" as an answer they will build up anger inside you might not necessarily see at the moment but they will let it out in the future. i try not to use the phrase "because i said so" at all and it has made quite a difference, now my kids are much more happy with my answers and ask a lot more questions which has made them learn a lot more then they would if they didn't ask questions. i used to use it a lot and it made the kids very mad and they almost stopped asking questions altogether. using the phrase has only led to conflict and sadness and when answering questions has really build a strong bond of trust between my kids and I that has really helped us in hard times but recently i have not been having some of the answers and the kids don't believe me. what should i do? what are your opinions on saying "Because I Said So"?