Ok, so I'm a guy. Got kids, love kids. We have a small team that is trying to put together a project. One of our team members is a gal that has brought her 1 1/2 year old to the past 3 meetings... and the kid, being a kid and all, was crying, talking, making noises during a large part of each meeting. Other than the "occasional" emergency, I've never, ever seen this.
Our last meeting we had to meet with a potential vendor and her child was making extremely distracting noises almost during the entire meeting. To the point of embarrassment.
So me being the "big jerk" that I am, told her that bringing a toddler to a strategy meeting, whereby the entire purpose is to talk, strategize, and be productive is essentially an exercise in futility, so I asked her to leave her child at home in the future. Everyone in the room is thinking this, but I'm the only one that had the kahonies to actually tell her. Of course that touched off a virtual fire storm with her. She stated that she has made a commitment to being with her child every single day, in business or wherever.
Would love to hear everyones opinion.
(do me a favor and try to separate your love of your child with the realities of being productive in a business meeting)
Our last meeting we had to meet with a potential vendor and her child was making extremely distracting noises almost during the entire meeting. To the point of embarrassment.
So me being the "big jerk" that I am, told her that bringing a toddler to a strategy meeting, whereby the entire purpose is to talk, strategize, and be productive is essentially an exercise in futility, so I asked her to leave her child at home in the future. Everyone in the room is thinking this, but I'm the only one that had the kahonies to actually tell her. Of course that touched off a virtual fire storm with her. She stated that she has made a commitment to being with her child every single day, in business or wherever.
Would love to hear everyones opinion.
(do me a favor and try to separate your love of your child with the realities of being productive in a business meeting)