<r><FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>Strangers are always telling my daughter she is beautiful, more than strangers typically tell children they are beautiful. Aside from the fact that she IS beautiful (no bias, of course <E></E> ) I think it has to do with her being biracial. There is clearly a fascination with biracial children. Anyway, the other day, when someone told her she was beautiful, she said, “I know.” <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<SIZE size="3"><s><SIZE size="125"></s><FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I want her to have confidence, and while I like to believe that I don’t put a lot of importance on looks, I’m realistic enough to know that it counts for a lot in a girl’s life. On the other hand, I don’t want her to be conceited. What can I do besides just tell her to say thank you? <e></e></FONT><e></SIZE></e></SIZE><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I don’t want her to become just a pretty girl. It was one of my considerations when leaving China. She got an enormous amount of attention there and she lapped it up like the ham she is. I didn’t want her to grow up having a warped sense of her own importance. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I think we all know beautiful people who depend on their looks for a lot of things other people have to work for. You can’t really blame them. Studies have shown that we treat “beautiful” people differently. How can I raise my daughter to be confident without her putting too much importance on looks? I guess I mean how can I counteract the reactions she gets from others? How can I teach her humility? <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I already stress how smart she is, what a good helper she is, how sweet she is, etc. What else can I do? <e></e></FONT></r>
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<SIZE size="3"><s><SIZE size="125"></s><FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I want her to have confidence, and while I like to believe that I don’t put a lot of importance on looks, I’m realistic enough to know that it counts for a lot in a girl’s life. On the other hand, I don’t want her to be conceited. What can I do besides just tell her to say thank you? <e></e></FONT><e></SIZE></e></SIZE><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I don’t want her to become just a pretty girl. It was one of my considerations when leaving China. She got an enormous amount of attention there and she lapped it up like the ham she is. I didn’t want her to grow up having a warped sense of her own importance. <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I think we all know beautiful people who depend on their looks for a lot of things other people have to work for. You can’t really blame them. Studies have shown that we treat “beautiful” people differently. How can I raise my daughter to be confident without her putting too much importance on looks? I guess I mean how can I counteract the reactions she gets from others? How can I teach her humility? <e></SIZE></e></SIZE><e>[/FONT]</e></FONT><br/>
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<FONT font="Times New Roman"><s></s>I already stress how smart she is, what a good helper she is, how sweet she is, etc. What else can I do? <e></e></FONT></r>