my 3 year old started calling his grandmaw a bit, well thats how we hear it but we think he is tryin to say b*tch,, i have no idea where he got this from, as most of you know i have trouble with my stepson, i recently posted a thread on his violent behavior,, this morning when i dropped him off to her he said," Ma, you a bit" and i said what did you say and he said it again " ma you a bit" i told him that was ugly and a bad word and not to say it again,, my question is, how else can we handle this ?? my mother n law puts a lil hot sauce in his mouth, i told her that was fine, if it stops him from saying that then go right ahead... another thing he always raises his fist to people like he will punch you,, he doesnt do it but it still looks ugly,, how do i stop that ? should i whip his hand ? put his hand down and put him sitting down ?? i thought terrible two's were over at 2 years lol ... please someone help me !!!!