So this topic has probably already been covered, but since this site has a policy of not resurecting old threads, here goes.
My DD is not a naughty child, but she IS three years old, and like any three year old she is continuously pushing to see what she can get away with. It has now reached a point where she will do something that she knows very well she's not allowed to, and then actually look at me to see what I am going to do about it. "There, I'm playing with the buttons on the CD player/pulling all the tupperware out of the cupboard/throwing my food on the floor instead of eating. Whatcha gonna do about it?" Kind of attitude. Talking to her used to work, but it isn't really working anymore. I would tell her no, stop that, and when I turn my back, she carries on. I think she's realised that daddy may have a deep voice, but he really isn't all that scary. Which is cool, I don't want my daughter to be scared of me, but I do want her to listen to me! :arghh:
Things I will not do:
Spanking, or any other method of inflicting physical pain.
Time-out.
How do I get her to listen to me, and to actually react to what I say? Any suggestions/advice would help. I don't want to leave this until I loose my temper with her! :veryconfused:
My DD is not a naughty child, but she IS three years old, and like any three year old she is continuously pushing to see what she can get away with. It has now reached a point where she will do something that she knows very well she's not allowed to, and then actually look at me to see what I am going to do about it. "There, I'm playing with the buttons on the CD player/pulling all the tupperware out of the cupboard/throwing my food on the floor instead of eating. Whatcha gonna do about it?" Kind of attitude. Talking to her used to work, but it isn't really working anymore. I would tell her no, stop that, and when I turn my back, she carries on. I think she's realised that daddy may have a deep voice, but he really isn't all that scary. Which is cool, I don't want my daughter to be scared of me, but I do want her to listen to me! :arghh:
Things I will not do:
Spanking, or any other method of inflicting physical pain.
Time-out.
How do I get her to listen to me, and to actually react to what I say? Any suggestions/advice would help. I don't want to leave this until I loose my temper with her! :veryconfused: