Today it occured to me that divorce is just so common these days, I mean the majority of kids that I work with have divorced parents, and it seems like something that justn happens these days. The issue came up in our house this week after me and my wife had a little disagreement which was over heard by Cameron our third child who went to Callum to ask why we were shouting at each other and Callum said 'maybe they're getting a divorce'. Cameron later came to me after the disagreement almost in tears and asked me if me and mummy were going to get a divorce and I said of course not.
I was quite shocked that Callum thought that this was what all parents did even at his age of understanding. But it goes to show that divorce is just the norm. I was just wondering what others thought about divorce, because me and my wife have always said that we married for life and life in everyway not just during the good times. I understand that divorce is understandable in some situations but should it be used so much that children grow up waiting for the time when it comes? Also when I sat down and told Callum me and Charlotte were never going to divorce he said that if we ever do could he stay with me? Is it right that kids have to choose their favourite parent because I was told as a young parent by my own parents that parenthood isn't a popularity contest but a team effort.
I was quite shocked that Callum thought that this was what all parents did even at his age of understanding. But it goes to show that divorce is just the norm. I was just wondering what others thought about divorce, because me and my wife have always said that we married for life and life in everyway not just during the good times. I understand that divorce is understandable in some situations but should it be used so much that children grow up waiting for the time when it comes? Also when I sat down and told Callum me and Charlotte were never going to divorce he said that if we ever do could he stay with me? Is it right that kids have to choose their favourite parent because I was told as a young parent by my own parents that parenthood isn't a popularity contest but a team effort.