My 19 y/o son is a senior in high school. He works around 30 hours a week, and has horrible attendence in school, he goes 3/5 days a week and most of the time never stays the whole day. He has never gotten in serious trouble (no detentions, no suspensions) and I have been very wierded out by this. His dean speaks highly of him and so does his teachers in report card comments.
My son has always been respectful, polite, almost TOO clean (hygiene and room) wakes up for school and gets there on his own, he's very independent.
Since he got his job earlier this year, my son started to wear real nice clothes & shoes. I questioned how he was doing this on his own.
He bought a bunch of stuff to turn his room into a small apartment for himself.
My son put a lock on his door to protect his valuables and music equipment.. I did not have much of a problem with this..
He recently asked me to get his laundry from his room while he was working, I got his spare key and started to look around.
High priced liqour bottle collection on his new wall shelving, liqour like hennesy, alize, champagne, expensive vodka
I found what appears to be his stash of marijuana, in 2 stash boxes. pipes, a expensive looking bong..
I knew he smoked pot sometimes. But what I stumbled apon next is what made me nervous..
A pencil box with 100's of empty drug baggies, a scale, and about 15 baggies filled with marijuana obviously for distribution.
I then found about 300 dollars worth of cash ina near by spot. All within 15 minutes of carefully snooping.
I felt sick and stopped looking around.
He's 19, lives in my house, senior in high school, works too much, does his own laundry, takes care of 3 family dogs we have. A great kid just like his older sister. I am shocked.
I don't even know where to start to intervene. We live in a city filled with crime and could get hurt.
All his stuff looks so professional I wouldn't be surprised if he was involved with a gang doing this or if he has any weapons in the house.
We have always been lenient on him, let him have girls over, told him to be careful with smoking pot.
I dont know where to begin :swoon:
My son has always been respectful, polite, almost TOO clean (hygiene and room) wakes up for school and gets there on his own, he's very independent.
Since he got his job earlier this year, my son started to wear real nice clothes & shoes. I questioned how he was doing this on his own.
He bought a bunch of stuff to turn his room into a small apartment for himself.
My son put a lock on his door to protect his valuables and music equipment.. I did not have much of a problem with this..
He recently asked me to get his laundry from his room while he was working, I got his spare key and started to look around.
High priced liqour bottle collection on his new wall shelving, liqour like hennesy, alize, champagne, expensive vodka
I found what appears to be his stash of marijuana, in 2 stash boxes. pipes, a expensive looking bong..
I knew he smoked pot sometimes. But what I stumbled apon next is what made me nervous..
A pencil box with 100's of empty drug baggies, a scale, and about 15 baggies filled with marijuana obviously for distribution.
I then found about 300 dollars worth of cash ina near by spot. All within 15 minutes of carefully snooping.
I felt sick and stopped looking around.
He's 19, lives in my house, senior in high school, works too much, does his own laundry, takes care of 3 family dogs we have. A great kid just like his older sister. I am shocked.
I don't even know where to start to intervene. We live in a city filled with crime and could get hurt.
All his stuff looks so professional I wouldn't be surprised if he was involved with a gang doing this or if he has any weapons in the house.
We have always been lenient on him, let him have girls over, told him to be careful with smoking pot.
I dont know where to begin :swoon: