We got a call monday from the principal at the high school about Dane. He told us that Dane has all the credits he needs and can graduate now if he wants. Meaning he won't have to go to the school anymore.
We had a meeting with the principal and Dane. Once he heard he wouldn't be able to play on the high school baseball team if he graduated early he said no thanks and left the room...end of discussion. He kind of seemed upset about it.
We are torn because on one hand if he stays in he gets college credits from his remaining classes (6 classes, 1/2 credit each, 3 college credits total). On the other hand, if he leaves he can be at his job full time for the next five months and save up a good amount of money.
We wouldn't be so worried if we knew his motives were good. But he outright told us he didn't care about the classes and is only staying because of baseball. Usually I wouldn't be worried at all but Dane doesn't like school. He's GREAT at it, always has good grades, but he hates it.
I'm just afraid that in a couple weeks he's going to get bored of staying in classes and say "forget it, I already graduated" or something like that.
I kind of talked to him earlier and said that if he stays in, the same rules are in effect...he must study, must get the best grades he can, blah blah blah. But I'm afraid he's going to realize that at some point we really can't do much about it.
At this point we're contemplating what to do if he just start slacking and getting C's and D's because it doesn't matter. What do we do then, pull him OUT of school? That would be extreme, and doesn't really seem like the right thing to do...
I'm proud of him, don't get me wrong. I just don't know what the best decision is for him. I fully believe that if it wasn't for baseball he would have said "bye" instead of "no thanks".
We had a meeting with the principal and Dane. Once he heard he wouldn't be able to play on the high school baseball team if he graduated early he said no thanks and left the room...end of discussion. He kind of seemed upset about it.
We are torn because on one hand if he stays in he gets college credits from his remaining classes (6 classes, 1/2 credit each, 3 college credits total). On the other hand, if he leaves he can be at his job full time for the next five months and save up a good amount of money.
We wouldn't be so worried if we knew his motives were good. But he outright told us he didn't care about the classes and is only staying because of baseball. Usually I wouldn't be worried at all but Dane doesn't like school. He's GREAT at it, always has good grades, but he hates it.
I'm just afraid that in a couple weeks he's going to get bored of staying in classes and say "forget it, I already graduated" or something like that.
I kind of talked to him earlier and said that if he stays in, the same rules are in effect...he must study, must get the best grades he can, blah blah blah. But I'm afraid he's going to realize that at some point we really can't do much about it.
At this point we're contemplating what to do if he just start slacking and getting C's and D's because it doesn't matter. What do we do then, pull him OUT of school? That would be extreme, and doesn't really seem like the right thing to do...
I'm proud of him, don't get me wrong. I just don't know what the best decision is for him. I fully believe that if it wasn't for baseball he would have said "bye" instead of "no thanks".