Prior to sharing an apartment with my GF we discussed the financial arrangements.
I felt that a 60her/40me split was fair. My rationale was that she gets child support and that if it were just she and I creating expenses I would be fine with 50/50.
About 6 months in she began complaining about the arrangement. Her perspective was, "If you want to be his father you need to act like it and that includes sharing the expenses."
I agreed for the sake of the peace. It isn't that much more money.
So the questions are;
Was this a fair arrangement in the first place or was it in my favor?
Does her having pushed back into the role of "just a boyfriend" invalidate her original logic?
Thanks.
PS: For the full background see my intro post.
I felt that a 60her/40me split was fair. My rationale was that she gets child support and that if it were just she and I creating expenses I would be fine with 50/50.
About 6 months in she began complaining about the arrangement. Her perspective was, "If you want to be his father you need to act like it and that includes sharing the expenses."
I agreed for the sake of the peace. It isn't that much more money.
So the questions are;
Was this a fair arrangement in the first place or was it in my favor?
Does her having pushed back into the role of "just a boyfriend" invalidate her original logic?
Thanks.
PS: For the full background see my intro post.