Am at a loss of what to do. I have a 16 yo male who is having an online "affair" with a young lady from the midwest. He "cheated" on his real-life girlfriend for this young lady. I mentioned the real girlfriend in my initial post and at that time I was worried about my son's grades suffering at the expense of his first real relationship. It was his request that I have him enrolled in a martial arts class(hone self-discipline skills), acquire a tutor , and a psychologist. I have done all of this...to no avail. At the end of his 2nd six weeks grading period he has F's (psych & us hist) & a D (English )in his advanced placement classes , a couple of c's (alg2 & bio), b(critical skls) & an A (german) in his regular classes. Similar situation as before.
Even though I've taken his laptop & ipod as a consequence(he was well aware of) of his bad grades He still bikes to the library to get some facebook time, but does so at the expense of his school work. Short of having his library account closed or taking his bike away from him...I don't know what more I can do to point this kid in the right direction. To make matters worse he hacked into my laptop by breaking the password clue..which he had translated(it was in french) and then deviously asked me the question during the week and then voila! hacked into it and was using my laptop without my permission. This is a level of subversion that I find utterly shocking.
I keep asking myself what would Eckhart Tolle do, but then I doubt if he has kids. Wise man. I'm running out of possibilities other than just sitting back and watching my kid crash & burn. Advice please?
Even though I've taken his laptop & ipod as a consequence(he was well aware of) of his bad grades He still bikes to the library to get some facebook time, but does so at the expense of his school work. Short of having his library account closed or taking his bike away from him...I don't know what more I can do to point this kid in the right direction. To make matters worse he hacked into my laptop by breaking the password clue..which he had translated(it was in french) and then deviously asked me the question during the week and then voila! hacked into it and was using my laptop without my permission. This is a level of subversion that I find utterly shocking.
I keep asking myself what would Eckhart Tolle do, but then I doubt if he has kids. Wise man. I'm running out of possibilities other than just sitting back and watching my kid crash & burn. Advice please?