So My girlfriend and I (im 25 she's 23) are supporting her 21 year old brother.
He moved in a week after graduating college to crash on our couch untill he found a way to support himself, and hasn't left our living room in two months.
We need to force him to look for jobs and contribute to our house.
My girlfriend and i constantly talk about how we feel like parents, and have decided that he needs to go.
How do parents work with an unmotivated young man? we've basically cut him off from everything except the couch that he sleeps on, and he still seems content on staying with us forever!
the main problem is that he has NOWHERE to go. no parents or friends or relatives. in the years before this, he was a complete recluse.
please give me some advice parents! we've run out of ideas
He moved in a week after graduating college to crash on our couch untill he found a way to support himself, and hasn't left our living room in two months.
We need to force him to look for jobs and contribute to our house.
My girlfriend and i constantly talk about how we feel like parents, and have decided that he needs to go.
How do parents work with an unmotivated young man? we've basically cut him off from everything except the couch that he sleeps on, and he still seems content on staying with us forever!
the main problem is that he has NOWHERE to go. no parents or friends or relatives. in the years before this, he was a complete recluse.
please give me some advice parents! we've run out of ideas