Been waiting years for this and wondering why it never came. I told Alexander to clean his room the other day, he didn't like it and raised a fuss, I grounded him from video games, and he stormed off into the bathroom saying 'I hate my dad...' We had a long talk about how that's not cool, and how words hurt and I think he took it to heart because the next day he started off by saying he wasn't going to be rude to anyone all day. It lasted all of 5 minutes until his sister sat in HIS seat in our mini-van...