Hey all,
I'm curious how some of you parents who take the mentor parenting approach would correct a child who acts up at school.
My son had a relapse of acting up at school this week. Nothing "serious". Just talking too much, not doing schoolwork, and generally not paying attention to his teacher. Now, it wouldn't be so bad if this was one episode, but we've worked really hard to make sure he knows he is suppose to pay attention.
If he is good at school, I usually play this video game with him as a bonus one weekend night. I told him we wouldn't be doing that this weekend. His mother thinks we should also cancel his park plans. I'm not sure that is a good idea, because I don't like putting so much emphasis on punishment. I also want to make sure he's not spoiled, and knows when I say something is important its not just a flippant remark.
What would a mentor parent do in this situation?
I'm curious how some of you parents who take the mentor parenting approach would correct a child who acts up at school.
My son had a relapse of acting up at school this week. Nothing "serious". Just talking too much, not doing schoolwork, and generally not paying attention to his teacher. Now, it wouldn't be so bad if this was one episode, but we've worked really hard to make sure he knows he is suppose to pay attention.
If he is good at school, I usually play this video game with him as a bonus one weekend night. I told him we wouldn't be doing that this weekend. His mother thinks we should also cancel his park plans. I'm not sure that is a good idea, because I don't like putting so much emphasis on punishment. I also want to make sure he's not spoiled, and knows when I say something is important its not just a flippant remark.
What would a mentor parent do in this situation?