I figured this would be a good little place to post my concern that has been going on with one of my neighbors.
Though we don't really socialize much (or at least in the beginning we didn't) there is plenty of tension that I can feel a block away.
Not going to give out too much info as it is confidential; and although this is none of my business, the issue is these neighbors, a nice older couple, take care of foster children. (just 2 and they don't want more) the child they take care of was born prematurely and with low birth weight. the biological parents perhaps took something(who knows)I'm not really going there.
At the age of 4, this girl is still underweight. This worker has visited this family several times already and she is not happy with the results. Not sure the exact details, but the child must gain a certain amount of weight in like a 3 week span( i think), or the social worker will remove the child and place her in another home if demands are not met by a certain deadline. My guess is workers are a bit strict when it comes to preemies? (who knows)
the second issue is, they're in the middle of an adoption procedure but that has now been interrupted with this news.
again, I feel this is none of my business, but I saw one of the neighbors in tears over this when they were getting the mail, and asked what happened. They have done everything possible to make the child gain some weight but I guess whatever they try isn't working. I can sort of understand their dilemma as they've been emotionally attached to the girl as if it were their own as they had her for several months now.
Any of you foster parents? or take care of children with special needs? What can be done about this? I'm curious.
Though we don't really socialize much (or at least in the beginning we didn't) there is plenty of tension that I can feel a block away.
Not going to give out too much info as it is confidential; and although this is none of my business, the issue is these neighbors, a nice older couple, take care of foster children. (just 2 and they don't want more) the child they take care of was born prematurely and with low birth weight. the biological parents perhaps took something(who knows)I'm not really going there.
At the age of 4, this girl is still underweight. This worker has visited this family several times already and she is not happy with the results. Not sure the exact details, but the child must gain a certain amount of weight in like a 3 week span( i think), or the social worker will remove the child and place her in another home if demands are not met by a certain deadline. My guess is workers are a bit strict when it comes to preemies? (who knows)
the second issue is, they're in the middle of an adoption procedure but that has now been interrupted with this news.
again, I feel this is none of my business, but I saw one of the neighbors in tears over this when they were getting the mail, and asked what happened. They have done everything possible to make the child gain some weight but I guess whatever they try isn't working. I can sort of understand their dilemma as they've been emotionally attached to the girl as if it were their own as they had her for several months now.
Any of you foster parents? or take care of children with special needs? What can be done about this? I'm curious.