Hey me and my wife are currentlly struggling with our eldest Sam (17) who seems to think Saturdays are his day to miss curfew. Both of our teenagers are aloud to go out with friends as long as they are back home by the latest 10 on a school night or 1am on a weekend, Callum (16) is quite good at being on time and following the other rules associated with going out. Sam on the other hand seems to think that 1am means 2:30am or sometimes later. Now usually both me and Charlotte (my wife) are asleep in bed at this time and don't want to wake the whole house arguing with Sam at that time. We also find it is best when hes sobered up to bring it up with him. However when we do bring it up he always has an excuse. We are really struggling with the following things inparticular with this issue:
- Do we punish when his excuses may be truthful?
- Do we introduce a parent taxi scheme so they have a definate way home?
- How do we continue giving Sam the freedom but make sure rules are followed?
- How do we deal with the situation without causing a family dispute
- Do we punish when his excuses may be truthful?
- Do we introduce a parent taxi scheme so they have a definate way home?
- How do we continue giving Sam the freedom but make sure rules are followed?
- How do we deal with the situation without causing a family dispute