<t>I need some advice on how to approach sensitive subjects with my boyfriend. Currently his 9 year old daughter has been making frequent attempts to miss school by “faking sick”. It has been going on since the beginning of the school year. She’s completely fine on weekends and during school vacations but as soon as it’s bedtime the night before school or as soon as she wakes up in the morning on a school day, she complains about feeling ill. This happens at least two-three times a week. He is fully aware that a majority of the time she is not sick but still caves in and lets her stay home from school. Meanwhile during this time, he allows her to watch tv, play games, play on the computer, have snacks and treats, etc. and as soon as our other kids come home (his 6 year old son & my 6 year old daughter) his daughter runs around playing with them with no problem. When I bring up suggestions such as eliminating the tv, computer, games, etc. he looks at me as if it’s a cruel thing for me to suggest. I am aware that there is probably an underlying issue to this. But when I stress the importance of getting this figured out, he brushes it off like it’s not that big of a deal. I am concerned that her habits will carry on when she’s older as well as it might influence our younger kids. Any suggestions?</t>