So, before I start let me say that my girl, almost 16, is a dream. She is a A student in advanced classes, does her chores without complaint, helpful, loving, and for the most part doesn't do anything I can complain about. Here is my only concern. Even though she is involved in every club and function the school has, unless its for the school she hardly ever does anything that doesn't involve her Dad or me. In the last year, she's went to the beach once, spent the night at a friends once, and went to a annual cook-out for a friend once. She is a teen age girl who literally talks on the phone to friends for less than 30 minutes a week, if even that. I've encouraged her to invite friends over or make plans with friends but she doesn't seem interested in hanging out with anyone but me. I'm glad she loves to be with me. I really am. But.. all my experience being a teen and raising them says she needs to have someone to vent to and relate to. When I ask her who is her best friend, she says me. Again, I'm honored but concerned that its not "normal" ( whatever normal is) for a girl her age. Any thoughts?
**** back story**** Her blood-mom died from an overdose when she was 12 after abandoning her. Could it be she clings to me because she's scared of losing another Mom?
**** back story**** Her blood-mom died from an overdose when she was 12 after abandoning her. Could it be she clings to me because she's scared of losing another Mom?