Very interesting question and responses as well.
I was very lucky, as I've learned along the way, that I had two parents who loved their children very much. I learned my best parenting skills from both my parents, they were pretty similar in their beliefs and a little different as well.
For the most part and with the important parenting issues, I do follow in their foot steps. for instance I don't believe in hitting children, or physical punishment of any kind, I believe it's healthy to hug and kiss children often, and verbally tell them you love them everyday, this goes for dad's telling their son's that as well.
Like my parents, I'd rather smother Max to pieces, and never let him do anything dangerous, oh yeah, I wish I could just control that forever, but I can't, and this is where my parents and I differ. They both were afraid of the whole world so held us back a lot. I also encourage him to go to college and learn forever, another thing my parents weren't big on.
I rather he enjoy his young life, and take it slow without getting too serious with just one girl , because I know how fast those precious teen years flies by and you can't get them back, (I wouldn't say it to him) but I wish it. My parents were raised where you worked at a young age and married young.
Of course today every thing has changed since I was a kid, and as a good parent you have to change with the times so that YOU fit into the new world your child belongs to. I find that many of my older fashion beliefs don't really apply to this new generation. So, I must make the effort to learn the new ways and parent with new skills.
My DH has never had children in his family before Max came along, so he was totally inexperienced, and found some of my ways odd. He was raised in a colder environment but turned out to be a good father. We disagreed on just about every child rearing issue that ever came up.
It got in the way of some important decisions and I ended up making them on my own sooo
That was tough. :wacko: