I have two boys and 1 girl, all 7. We have a Wii as well as an Xbox 360 and a computer. The kids of course all love their games and tv shows/movies, but I'm finding that they tend to get a little obsessed with wanting to be on them all the time. I try to curb the time they spend on it, especially with one of the boys. He constantly asks to play a video game and when we say no, he literally sits on the stairs and can't come up with a single thing to do - even though there are plenty of toys in his room as well as things outside he can do. When any of the kids are done playing a video game, they'll immediately ask to watch a movie or tv show. I see it as the same thing - staring at a screen.
During the week, we typically limit the kids to 1 hour a day, but in the summer months, they would wake before us and be on it for a couple hours or more. The same thing on the weekends.
My boyfriend doesn't think there's an issue with them spending a few hours a day in front of screens, but I feel it's something that should be more of an "extra" for them instead of an all the time thing. When the twins (the video game obsessed boy and the girl) go to their mother's house (every other weekend) all they do is play video games and watch tv/movies with very little other activity. I know we can't do anything about what they do at their other parent's house, but that makes me want to curb their time during the week and weekends with us even more.
How can we curb the obsession with needing to be in front of a screen all day and how much is too much? On the flipside - how little is too little?
During the week, we typically limit the kids to 1 hour a day, but in the summer months, they would wake before us and be on it for a couple hours or more. The same thing on the weekends.
My boyfriend doesn't think there's an issue with them spending a few hours a day in front of screens, but I feel it's something that should be more of an "extra" for them instead of an all the time thing. When the twins (the video game obsessed boy and the girl) go to their mother's house (every other weekend) all they do is play video games and watch tv/movies with very little other activity. I know we can't do anything about what they do at their other parent's house, but that makes me want to curb their time during the week and weekends with us even more.
How can we curb the obsession with needing to be in front of a screen all day and how much is too much? On the flipside - how little is too little?