Okay so me and Fern are at a point where we feel its time to tell Mathew and Caitlyn more about their background, and about being adopted.
Caitlyn's background - Caitlyn's father was an alcoholic and drug addict - she was seriously abused by him, her mother asked for her to be removed. Her mother then committed suicide.
Mathew's background: Mathew was left on a doorstep and nothing else is known about his parents.
How do we tell them these quite painful facts? At the moment they know that they are adopted which means they were really really special when wesaw them we chose them to be our kids. But not much more. Help!!!
Caitlyn's background - Caitlyn's father was an alcoholic and drug addict - she was seriously abused by him, her mother asked for her to be removed. Her mother then committed suicide.
Mathew's background: Mathew was left on a doorstep and nothing else is known about his parents.
How do we tell them these quite painful facts? At the moment they know that they are adopted which means they were really really special when wesaw them we chose them to be our kids. But not much more. Help!!!