Hiya,
I just had a question on how best to introduce myself into my kids life.
I was there from 0-6months and then saw him once a month from 1.5-3.5 and then increased to 8 times a month from 3.5-4.5. During this time, we have never sat our kid down and told him I was his father.
When talking to my ex, she has insisted she wanted to wait to tell him because she didn't want to confuse and traumatize him. Well, I wanted to be a good co-parent and since I lived 4 hours away and only saw him once a month, I agreed we can wait until he is older before we tell him.(big mistake)
I relocated 15 mins away and have been seeing our son (at her house) for a year now 8 times a month. I brought up the point of telling him again as I want to prepare him to spending time with me outside of my exes house and wants me to take the lead.
I realized I should have just told him years ago, but I am dealing with this now.
I just had a question on how best to introduce myself into my kids life.
I was there from 0-6months and then saw him once a month from 1.5-3.5 and then increased to 8 times a month from 3.5-4.5. During this time, we have never sat our kid down and told him I was his father.
When talking to my ex, she has insisted she wanted to wait to tell him because she didn't want to confuse and traumatize him. Well, I wanted to be a good co-parent and since I lived 4 hours away and only saw him once a month, I agreed we can wait until he is older before we tell him.(big mistake)
I relocated 15 mins away and have been seeing our son (at her house) for a year now 8 times a month. I brought up the point of telling him again as I want to prepare him to spending time with me outside of my exes house and wants me to take the lead.
I realized I should have just told him years ago, but I am dealing with this now.