Ok so I really need some actual advice, it's pretty serious in my opinion, I'm at a loss and pretty sad.
So we all know how bad things have been between me and my mom, I've always wanted her to like me for me, trust me and see that I am a good person.
It still hurts.
Today, within a twelve hour time span she managed to tell family that my boyfriend is a swindling lying manipulate dick who's going to try and sell the farm out from under us, not true and never going to happen.
Tell me that I am a moron with money and will blow the money for my move before I even leave. Regardless of the fact that I've been making it work on only about $800 a month. Majority she thinks ill blow on drugs... Regardless of the fact we get ours for free.
That I'm only moving to Tennessee to use and drain my grandmother.
Regardless of the fact that I've been pretty self sustaining and she is fully supported.
Seriously I cried so much tonight and then noticed my face and chest were beat red, so it was pretty bad.
There were various other lies, saying my grandmother said something she didn't.
Anywho, I can't keep doing this to myself, I either need to cut all contact or fix it but I don't know how.
I feel as if I don't even know my mom, like something strongly tells me to get to know her, which is going to be difficult moving so far across the country.
I'm just tired of the lies and the fighting, I can't keep dragging my self through the dirt.
I've found a great guy, we plan to get married have kids and this is the beginning of our life.
I can't take the lies, it's ripping me apart.
So we all know how bad things have been between me and my mom, I've always wanted her to like me for me, trust me and see that I am a good person.
It still hurts.
Today, within a twelve hour time span she managed to tell family that my boyfriend is a swindling lying manipulate dick who's going to try and sell the farm out from under us, not true and never going to happen.
Tell me that I am a moron with money and will blow the money for my move before I even leave. Regardless of the fact that I've been making it work on only about $800 a month. Majority she thinks ill blow on drugs... Regardless of the fact we get ours for free.
That I'm only moving to Tennessee to use and drain my grandmother.
Regardless of the fact that I've been pretty self sustaining and she is fully supported.
Seriously I cried so much tonight and then noticed my face and chest were beat red, so it was pretty bad.
There were various other lies, saying my grandmother said something she didn't.
Anywho, I can't keep doing this to myself, I either need to cut all contact or fix it but I don't know how.
I feel as if I don't even know my mom, like something strongly tells me to get to know her, which is going to be difficult moving so far across the country.
I'm just tired of the lies and the fighting, I can't keep dragging my self through the dirt.
I've found a great guy, we plan to get married have kids and this is the beginning of our life.
I can't take the lies, it's ripping me apart.