I am so stressed out, I am a first time mom (well second time mom but we had a baby who died shortly after birth 1.5 yrs ago). I don't know if this has anything to do with my stress. My baby girl is 8 months old and she constantly whines and screams a very high pitched scream that physically hurts my ears. I try and stay calm or leave the room but I can hear her EVERY where in the house. I can't go for a walk outside and leave her alone, so I don't know what to do. It gets to the point where I have yelled "Will you just SHUT UP??!!" at her... not that she knows what it means but still it's not a very appropriate response on my part.
I can't even clean my house because she's so clingy. I can't carry her in a baby sling etc because I have a bad back. My house is a mess, even though I have a cleaner that comes once every second week just to do the bathroom, floors and kitchen. But the kitchen gets dirty the next day it's never ending.
I go a week without having a shower because I can't leave her alone for five minutes. I quickly wash but thats not the same. A shower to me is a rare luxury. I rarely have clean clothes because no time to do laundry. My husband works long hours so he can't help me very much, plus what little time he does have at home he is busy putting in a second bathroom which we really need done as it stresses me out not having it done.
I'm afraid of growing into a mean mom who hates her children and ends up hitting them... I haven't had the urge to hit her yet but if I don't get the yelling under control I'm afraid it may escalate. I just read the "My wife won't stop hitting my son" thread and it scared me!
I can't even clean my house because she's so clingy. I can't carry her in a baby sling etc because I have a bad back. My house is a mess, even though I have a cleaner that comes once every second week just to do the bathroom, floors and kitchen. But the kitchen gets dirty the next day it's never ending.
I go a week without having a shower because I can't leave her alone for five minutes. I quickly wash but thats not the same. A shower to me is a rare luxury. I rarely have clean clothes because no time to do laundry. My husband works long hours so he can't help me very much, plus what little time he does have at home he is busy putting in a second bathroom which we really need done as it stresses me out not having it done.
I'm afraid of growing into a mean mom who hates her children and ends up hitting them... I haven't had the urge to hit her yet but if I don't get the yelling under control I'm afraid it may escalate. I just read the "My wife won't stop hitting my son" thread and it scared me!