So, my girl turned 11 in January of this year, and today, she came home and was very distraught. She wouldn't talk to me about what was wrong, but later, my wife told me that she had, had her first period! Now, I know I can't understand fully what that means to a young woman, but I thought that she would be proud or happy about it, but it seems like she is devestated! I would like to be able to talk to her about it, but she has no interest in discussing such a thing with me. I'm a little hurt, I guess, because she has always talked to me about everything. And needless to say, I was hoping we had a few more years before she took this step towards womanhood. I was concerned at first because to me, she seems too young, but I was educated that it isn't.
So, the question is, is should I try to talk to her about it? I feel like it would embarrass her because I am a man, but I want her to know that she can talk to me about it if she wants/needs to. I want her to be happy about this, not upset. My wife says that perhaps my girl was unprepared for it as well, and that she may think she can't be a kid anymore. I want her to know that, that isn't true! But like I said, she may find it embarrassing to talk to me about it. Not to mention that I am feeling a mix of pride and sadness, and I am completely unprepared for her inevitable journey into puberty.
So, the question is, is should I try to talk to her about it? I feel like it would embarrass her because I am a man, but I want her to know that she can talk to me about it if she wants/needs to. I want her to be happy about this, not upset. My wife says that perhaps my girl was unprepared for it as well, and that she may think she can't be a kid anymore. I want her to know that, that isn't true! But like I said, she may find it embarrassing to talk to me about it. Not to mention that I am feeling a mix of pride and sadness, and I am completely unprepared for her inevitable journey into puberty.