My niece recently on a "dare" send a provocative picture of herself to a male friend. He of course sent it to every kid he knows A concerned mother sent it to me. She is devastated. I have taken the phone away and replaced it with a very basic phone that does not have a camera. We have also agreed for now that i will be making random checks of her txt messages etc until she can earn my trust back.
To be honest i never wanted her to have an iphone in the first place because i wanted to prevent this sort of thing but it was a gift. Should I eventually give it back (when the penalty is over) or replace it with one of those ipod touches? Is this penalty enough? I dont doubt her remorse as she has cried herself to sleep several times over this so don't want to make her feel worse but by the same token want her to avoid this sort of thing happening again.
To be honest i never wanted her to have an iphone in the first place because i wanted to prevent this sort of thing but it was a gift. Should I eventually give it back (when the penalty is over) or replace it with one of those ipod touches? Is this penalty enough? I dont doubt her remorse as she has cried herself to sleep several times over this so don't want to make her feel worse but by the same token want her to avoid this sort of thing happening again.