Hey there, My name is Michael and this is my first child and so far it has been going good. Me and the mother split 7 months before he was born (She did not want to settle down even though we wanted a child) on July 5th 2012. His name is Kris (Kristopher) and is 7 months old and has thrush at the moment sadly, poor kid.
I watch Kris when she works and some nights throughout the week I keep him all night so we worked out scheduling for us both to have time with him at least. I currently live at home and am 25 years of age due to some issues that arose let alone I am currently unemployed for issues at the workplace unfortunately.
My father drinks seems almost everyday (Been like this forever) and even though I do not mind when he drinks as long as he does not cause any problems which is not as bad as it used to be. He came in stumbling while I was on the couch and fell on Kris's bouncy chair (Has some toys on it etc and a platform with bungie cords to bounce with).
Luckily Kris was asleep in his pack n play because usually I sit him in his chair when I fix his bottle or grab him baby food otherwise he woulda broke his neck or worse...I just ignored it like usual. Kris woke up so I took him out and had him on the couch bouncing him on my lap and playing then my father wanted to hold him.
I of course told him no and he said "why?" I said "Because you're too drunk." He then said "Whatever." I stated calmly "Well if he was in his bouncy chair you could have broke his neck or killed him." I was angry mentally but calm physically which my medication has helped with greatly since I used to have a bad temper.
Also my sons stepfather (There not married yet doubt it will happen) likes my son so it also bugs me what if my son ends up liking him more or calling him dad. She says that will not happen and he lives about a couple hours away she lives only 20 minutes away from me (Used to live together).
He has a job I do not, he will be able to buy my son things but I wont and I know buying does not mean everything but I only been able to buy him that chair with what I had left of my money from when I did have my job. I may just be freaking out but I do not know what to do.
I am on valium, depression medications, anti anxiety, and some booster tablets for my depression meds along with heart medication since my bps goes to 180 under bad stress or panic. I am Agoraphobic so I want to get out and move but it is just hard.
I only have had two jobs, first one I quit due to medical issues and my last one I was harassed from one of the managers even though I did my job to the point of no return which management did not do anything about it and if I only had known it was a union company I might of had a chance but I was in too deep.
I plan on getting a haircut and searching for jobs for my sons sake anyway even if it kills me. I do not drive either always had a fear of it but plan on doing that as well just I am not sure how to deal with some of this. My father apologized today which I figured he would anyway, usually does.
Unlike his mother I plan to put a hold on dating, my son comes first and he is priority over anyone else to me at this moment. His mother is caring and loving so I do not mean to try and make her sound bad just a bit immature. Any information and help would be appreciated though thank you and sorry if this was too long to read haha...
I have some pictures of him, plan to upload more later in an album from my camera so if anyone wants to take a look. Take care.
I watch Kris when she works and some nights throughout the week I keep him all night so we worked out scheduling for us both to have time with him at least. I currently live at home and am 25 years of age due to some issues that arose let alone I am currently unemployed for issues at the workplace unfortunately.
My father drinks seems almost everyday (Been like this forever) and even though I do not mind when he drinks as long as he does not cause any problems which is not as bad as it used to be. He came in stumbling while I was on the couch and fell on Kris's bouncy chair (Has some toys on it etc and a platform with bungie cords to bounce with).
Luckily Kris was asleep in his pack n play because usually I sit him in his chair when I fix his bottle or grab him baby food otherwise he woulda broke his neck or worse...I just ignored it like usual. Kris woke up so I took him out and had him on the couch bouncing him on my lap and playing then my father wanted to hold him.
I of course told him no and he said "why?" I said "Because you're too drunk." He then said "Whatever." I stated calmly "Well if he was in his bouncy chair you could have broke his neck or killed him." I was angry mentally but calm physically which my medication has helped with greatly since I used to have a bad temper.
Also my sons stepfather (There not married yet doubt it will happen) likes my son so it also bugs me what if my son ends up liking him more or calling him dad. She says that will not happen and he lives about a couple hours away she lives only 20 minutes away from me (Used to live together).
He has a job I do not, he will be able to buy my son things but I wont and I know buying does not mean everything but I only been able to buy him that chair with what I had left of my money from when I did have my job. I may just be freaking out but I do not know what to do.
I am on valium, depression medications, anti anxiety, and some booster tablets for my depression meds along with heart medication since my bps goes to 180 under bad stress or panic. I am Agoraphobic so I want to get out and move but it is just hard.
I only have had two jobs, first one I quit due to medical issues and my last one I was harassed from one of the managers even though I did my job to the point of no return which management did not do anything about it and if I only had known it was a union company I might of had a chance but I was in too deep.
I plan on getting a haircut and searching for jobs for my sons sake anyway even if it kills me. I do not drive either always had a fear of it but plan on doing that as well just I am not sure how to deal with some of this. My father apologized today which I figured he would anyway, usually does.
Unlike his mother I plan to put a hold on dating, my son comes first and he is priority over anyone else to me at this moment. His mother is caring and loving so I do not mean to try and make her sound bad just a bit immature. Any information and help would be appreciated though thank you and sorry if this was too long to read haha...
I have some pictures of him, plan to upload more later in an album from my camera so if anyone wants to take a look. Take care.