Well I put in for my first job in 6 years (I have been a stay-at-mom almost exclusively since my first was born). It's not the first one I've applied for over the years, but it's the first serious offer I've gotten.
I meet with the supervisor next week to discuss the details and either accept or decline the job. At this point, there are still unknown terms that will have to be met to my satisfaction next week or I won't take the job. But I'm excited about it.
My husband still thinks there should be a stay-at-home parent while the children are young, and I do agree in theory. We always kind of agreed that whomever could earn the most would be the one working. But I asked him to keep his job at least for awhile, even if I take this one, just to make sure everything works out. And he agreed with that. In the meantime (or longer), I was hoping for tips on how families manage having both parents work.
I've obviously figured out the logistics of childcare and transportation, but I'm not sure how people pull off making dinner, doing the housework and spending time with the kids without keeping them up late into the night. I typically do these things during the day and it's rather crammed. It takes me at least 2 hours a day to do meals. And we already find ourselves letting the kids stay up for an hour past their bedtime (more on weekends) because we've got stuff to do with them that takes longer than we expected. It's been getting pretty disorganized over the years... I had a good routine going a few years ago when it was a key factor in managing kids' behavior, but now that that's pretty much established (and without much in the way of external demands), I've kind of let it go. Things like playing with a fussy baby at midnight probably won't work if I can't take a nap with her the following day...
I meet with the supervisor next week to discuss the details and either accept or decline the job. At this point, there are still unknown terms that will have to be met to my satisfaction next week or I won't take the job. But I'm excited about it.
My husband still thinks there should be a stay-at-home parent while the children are young, and I do agree in theory. We always kind of agreed that whomever could earn the most would be the one working. But I asked him to keep his job at least for awhile, even if I take this one, just to make sure everything works out. And he agreed with that. In the meantime (or longer), I was hoping for tips on how families manage having both parents work.
I've obviously figured out the logistics of childcare and transportation, but I'm not sure how people pull off making dinner, doing the housework and spending time with the kids without keeping them up late into the night. I typically do these things during the day and it's rather crammed. It takes me at least 2 hours a day to do meals. And we already find ourselves letting the kids stay up for an hour past their bedtime (more on weekends) because we've got stuff to do with them that takes longer than we expected. It's been getting pretty disorganized over the years... I had a good routine going a few years ago when it was a key factor in managing kids' behavior, but now that that's pretty much established (and without much in the way of external demands), I've kind of let it go. Things like playing with a fussy baby at midnight probably won't work if I can't take a nap with her the following day...