Hi im sarah just joined recently i feel a constant war between myself and my 3 year old daughter so joined this site for some support any ideas , i find myself shoutinga lot which i hate !, i was fine untill charlotte turned 2 then it started getting harder. Arguments trigger when shes not getting her own way which sounds stupid because i shouldnt argue with her i know ive tried naughty corner various things , i love her and reallyt hink i need tips on how to cope with tantrums and ways to de stress myself i have smackd her which i regret not hard but still i dont want to go down that route . Sometimes she talks all day long and is really energetic and it doe smy head in does anyone else know what i mean be glad of any advice ty x