My 14 year old son in 8th grade has always hated school. He asks me every day to let him stay home from school. I really dont know how to help him, because his experience in school is different than mine. I know its not academic, he's getting very good grades in honors classes with a 3.57 GPA and never complains about the work, and never studies for his tests and always gets good grades on them.
Unfortunately, he has had multiple problems with multiple kids bothering him, and he always tells the counsler about it. He really wants to be homeschooled, yet we have nobody who can watch him, nor do we have money to pay for someone to watch him. He's a total bitch to get up in the morning, but its always been that way since preschool, and his complaints got much worse since 7th grade. He says that bullying only happens every once in a while.
He never has any friends over, nor does he show interest of having one over or going to one's house. He never goes out, nor does he show interest of wanting to do so. I think its because he doesnt have the friends to do so, which he has none. He is always at home, racing to get home every day. He does not have a phone, and he doesnt want one. He already has a computer.
I know that christmas break is coming up, and these issues have been present since last year, but I feel it is going to get worse next semester, and I want to be prepared. I am interested in looking for alternate education for 10th grade, but I want him to get social interaction he needs and try high school to see if he likes it. He just says it'll turn out just like the past year and a half. He says theres nothing good about going to school. He also has no clue what he wants to do for life.
Unfortunately, he has had multiple problems with multiple kids bothering him, and he always tells the counsler about it. He really wants to be homeschooled, yet we have nobody who can watch him, nor do we have money to pay for someone to watch him. He's a total bitch to get up in the morning, but its always been that way since preschool, and his complaints got much worse since 7th grade. He says that bullying only happens every once in a while.
He never has any friends over, nor does he show interest of having one over or going to one's house. He never goes out, nor does he show interest of wanting to do so. I think its because he doesnt have the friends to do so, which he has none. He is always at home, racing to get home every day. He does not have a phone, and he doesnt want one. He already has a computer.
I know that christmas break is coming up, and these issues have been present since last year, but I feel it is going to get worse next semester, and I want to be prepared. I am interested in looking for alternate education for 10th grade, but I want him to get social interaction he needs and try high school to see if he likes it. He just says it'll turn out just like the past year and a half. He says theres nothing good about going to school. He also has no clue what he wants to do for life.
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