for the past few months my daughter (18) has been dating this guy that is a completely bad influence on her, is a loser and acts like a jerk, he is also 25 and hasnt even gone to college. Ever since she started dating him her grades have dropped, she's not even hanging out with her regular friends anymore, she's started smoking and drinking, she doesnt spend the night here that much anymore, and she's skipping school, i also wouldnt be surprised if she was doing drugs. i confronted her about it and she said she was 18 and could do whatever she wanted, she also apparently gives this guy beer money that she earns from her job. and about a week ago just to spite me she brought him home during a family reunion and thats when i knew from seeing him that he was such a bad influence. he's got tattoos, long hair, a beard, a trashy car, and he smells like alcohol and cigarettes, but he has a really good body and is actually handsome so i guess thats why my daughter likes him, he was carrying a flask filled with vodka at my house so i kicked them out. the next day i went to this guys crappy studio apartment to tell him to stop seeing my daughter and when i got there his place smelled like pot, there were beer cans all over the floor and he looked high, when i told him to stop seeing her he laughed in my face and told me quote "i love it when you fight with your daughter cuz she just comes running back to this matress right here" then he shut the door in my face.
how can i make my daughter see what a loser and bad influence this guy is, this is her last year in high school and she should be worrying about her future and college not hanging out with a guy that is passed out on his couch every night.
how can i get her to stop seeing him? im afraid a comfrontation will cause her to leave and go move in with him or quit school all together.
how can i make my daughter see what a loser and bad influence this guy is, this is her last year in high school and she should be worrying about her future and college not hanging out with a guy that is passed out on his couch every night.
how can i get her to stop seeing him? im afraid a comfrontation will cause her to leave and go move in with him or quit school all together.