IADad Quote"You may want to also tell him that not many people actually end up working in the fields they study. I mean take a poll here, I bet that less than 50% of those who went to college are working in their major fields."
Thank you IAdad, I think your probably right. My husband graduated college in business Marketing, and has worked as a construction for the last 30 years and loves it, so it is what it is.
Somebody Quote: "So I would think that there is no need to get a degree RIGHT NOW. I would suggest to him that he get a full time job and put college on hold. He is going to have to face DIRECTLY the kind of job he can get, and the kind of money he can make without a degree when he gets said job. Accounting and physics are likely to become a lot more appealing."
Thanks Somebody, I wish I could just say to him " why don't you drop college for a while,and go to work full time, but I can't. I still believe that parents are obligated to encourage our teens to work through their obstacles. I understand college is hard, but that might be because he's in the wrong field of study. It really depends on your child.
Sometimes my son is lazy, and I know he doesn't like to push himself out of his comfort zone, I know when he's rebelling as well. If I suggest he drop out, I'm afraid I'd be sending him the wrong message, and he may interpret it as I'm giving up on him. Which I never would.
He's got to much potential and so much possibility that he doesn't even realize it himself, I can see it because I'm older and wiser and while he's going through this adolescent hormonal thingy--I think his dad and I just have to suck it up until it passes and continue to guide him forward.
ChemEngineer--He thought of chemical engineering too for a while. Thanks. lol.
By the way, he's liking college again! lol WHEW!