We've talked about it before, and she admits she's wrong for hitting our 4 year old...but everytime he acts up, she lets things get to her...and ends up spanking him. I don't get it. :-(
Once she calms down, she feels horrible...and then spoils him...but once he misbehaves, it's like we never had that talk.
This weekend, she even hit him in the head! It wasn't a hard hit...or something he even cried about, but just watching her do it out of frustration made me furious.
I know not many people are going to admit it...but has anyone had this problem? Or had a spouse who had this problem? Any thoughts?
I don't think it'll get worse...and it's not like some kind of domestic abuse issue where she is looking to inflict pain on someone...she just reacts physically to him. It's not really hard either...but I don't like it!
Once she calms down, she feels horrible...and then spoils him...but once he misbehaves, it's like we never had that talk.
This weekend, she even hit him in the head! It wasn't a hard hit...or something he even cried about, but just watching her do it out of frustration made me furious.
I know not many people are going to admit it...but has anyone had this problem? Or had a spouse who had this problem? Any thoughts?
I don't think it'll get worse...and it's not like some kind of domestic abuse issue where she is looking to inflict pain on someone...she just reacts physically to him. It's not really hard either...but I don't like it!