Hi Everyone,
I am a newcomer and this is my very first thread. My friend did introduce me to this forum
i thank them for this.
I am facing a very peculiar situation and do need a different point of view to address my "Thoughts".
I also apologize because this is a fairly long post.
I have 2 children a son who is going to graduate next year and a daughter who will be in her senior high next year.
My son who is 17 year old son has grown up to be a Adonis himself. I am not overly stating but he indeed has grown into a handsome man. I had a family gathering the other day and my son by mistake had come without his shirt on. Since he is highly conservative and a STOIC guy in this age, he immediately covered himself even though it was just our family(including my friends and sister in law) . My sister in law commented that my son had become such a good looking guy that he could have any women in the world . To make matters worse , my daughter commented that she had seen my son's tool and he indeed could have any women . they all laughed and even though i felt light about the situation then I feel terrible and have not stopped thinking this. I confronted my daughter when we were alone and she said she was curious about him and has a strong crush on him.
I told this to my husband who made light of the situation as always and tried to tell me that our daughter was a teenager who was just being curious and "the comments" from my sister in law were purely funny.
I do not know what to do. i just cannot get it out of my head. I love my kids but i just am not able to get this out of my head. My son is a stoic guy who plans to move away and i have never seen him displaying emotion unless he is angry. He works all the time and plans to pay for his college by taking a year's break after graduation. I am proud of my kids but just cannot imagine this from my daughter. I am worried. am i overthinking? am i freaking out.<EMOJI seq="1f615"></EMOJI><EMOJI seq="1f615"></EMOJI><EMOJI seq="1f615"></EMOJI>
I am a newcomer and this is my very first thread. My friend did introduce me to this forum
i thank them for this. I am facing a very peculiar situation and do need a different point of view to address my "Thoughts".
I also apologize because this is a fairly long post.
I have 2 children a son who is going to graduate next year and a daughter who will be in her senior high next year.
My son who is 17 year old son has grown up to be a Adonis himself. I am not overly stating but he indeed has grown into a handsome man. I had a family gathering the other day and my son by mistake had come without his shirt on. Since he is highly conservative and a STOIC guy in this age, he immediately covered himself even though it was just our family(including my friends and sister in law) . My sister in law commented that my son had become such a good looking guy that he could have any women in the world . To make matters worse , my daughter commented that she had seen my son's tool and he indeed could have any women . they all laughed and even though i felt light about the situation then I feel terrible and have not stopped thinking this. I confronted my daughter when we were alone and she said she was curious about him and has a strong crush on him.
I told this to my husband who made light of the situation as always and tried to tell me that our daughter was a teenager who was just being curious and "the comments" from my sister in law were purely funny.
I do not know what to do. i just cannot get it out of my head. I love my kids but i just am not able to get this out of my head. My son is a stoic guy who plans to move away and i have never seen him displaying emotion unless he is angry. He works all the time and plans to pay for his college by taking a year's break after graduation. I am proud of my kids but just cannot imagine this from my daughter. I am worried. am i overthinking? am i freaking out.
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