I think a number of us have only one child, and I think everyone would agree there are unique parenting issues in this case. I have lots of questions related to this, but this week I discovered what must be the greatest benefit of having only one child - no tattling!
I was looking after my niece and two nephews while their parents were traveling. My daughter and my niece are only 5 months apart and have always played amazingly well and still do. However, they have their little spats, which I'm sure they resolve quickly and satisfactorily when I'm not nearby, but all weekend my niece was running to me every few minutes to tell on my daughter. At first I tried to resolve things, but finally I just backed off and let them handle things on their own. It didn't stop the tattling though.
Do you have an only child and do you have any concerns or observations you'd like to share?
I was looking after my niece and two nephews while their parents were traveling. My daughter and my niece are only 5 months apart and have always played amazingly well and still do. However, they have their little spats, which I'm sure they resolve quickly and satisfactorily when I'm not nearby, but all weekend my niece was running to me every few minutes to tell on my daughter. At first I tried to resolve things, but finally I just backed off and let them handle things on their own. It didn't stop the tattling though.
Do you have an only child and do you have any concerns or observations you'd like to share?