my 4 yr old son always loved going shopping,parks,places,ect..past month,,he wont leave the house,when we try to get him in the car,,he cries,,hyperventilates,the whole 9 yards,,so we give in,and he stays home..so me,my husband and him,,cant all go places at once..one of us always has to stay home with him..my sister said he will out grow it..i dont know if i should take him kicking and screaming,,or let him decide when he wants to go places again?help..anyone gone through this? what do i do?i have tryed bribes with toys,games ect..he will say..you go buy me that and bring it home..he wont go..any help will be appreciated..