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Adult content. I'm not trying to be 'perverted' in any way. Let's try to be adults about it I asked Xero about this before posting and got a green light. But! Let's behave so we don't get it shut down.
Ok, I'm pretty huge now, and sex has become harder in a lot of ways. With my first son, well, lets just say that sex and pregnancy was not an issue....so this time around I'm having to deal with things I didn't have to deal with in my first pregnancy.
First trimester, well, I wasn't so interested in sex. I was a little nervous, but I mostly just didn't feel like it. I felt kind of fat, my boobs hurt really bad, I was tired, and I was not feeling sexy at all.
Second trimester, wooooo hooo!!! I had more energy, the baby bump wasn't so big it got in the way, and my hormones were kickin'. The only problem I had sometimes is when the baby would kick. It kind of interfered with the 'moment' if you know what I mean. Did/do any of you feel like that?
Third trimester, started off ok, but now it's hard. Haven't really figured out what position is good. Spoon is the only one that kind of works and that is not the way my hubby and I fit together best. Suggestions??? One big draw back is that I get up really early, that that is when my hormones are peaking. I have to wait until at least 5:15am before I wake my husband up, and I can't really expect him to be too acrobatic at that time of the morning if you know what I mean.
I'd really like to hear how the guys out there feel about pregnancy sex. My husband is never the one who initiates now. But I think it has to do with the fact that he is ASLEEP in the early am. He stays up late, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't wake me at night because I am so tired and he wants me to rest. Also might have something to do with the first trimester. I made it pretty clear that I knew he liked my new big boobs, but if he touched them, it wouldn't turn out good for him. They hurt so bad!!! But maybe something else is going on in his head he doesn't want to tell me about????
My husband kind of laughed at me the other day. I said "we're running out of time!!!" He said, "is that what is going on???" I guess I've kind of kicked it into high gear knowing that we will have to refrain for awhile after I give birth. It's kind of a sensitive issue for me because I was in a sexless relationship for 6 years. I NEVER want that to happen again!
Adult content. I'm not trying to be 'perverted' in any way. Let's try to be adults about it I asked Xero about this before posting and got a green light. But! Let's behave so we don't get it shut down.
Ok, I'm pretty huge now, and sex has become harder in a lot of ways. With my first son, well, lets just say that sex and pregnancy was not an issue....so this time around I'm having to deal with things I didn't have to deal with in my first pregnancy.
First trimester, well, I wasn't so interested in sex. I was a little nervous, but I mostly just didn't feel like it. I felt kind of fat, my boobs hurt really bad, I was tired, and I was not feeling sexy at all.
Second trimester, wooooo hooo!!! I had more energy, the baby bump wasn't so big it got in the way, and my hormones were kickin'. The only problem I had sometimes is when the baby would kick. It kind of interfered with the 'moment' if you know what I mean. Did/do any of you feel like that?
Third trimester, started off ok, but now it's hard. Haven't really figured out what position is good. Spoon is the only one that kind of works and that is not the way my hubby and I fit together best. Suggestions??? One big draw back is that I get up really early, that that is when my hormones are peaking. I have to wait until at least 5:15am before I wake my husband up, and I can't really expect him to be too acrobatic at that time of the morning if you know what I mean.
I'd really like to hear how the guys out there feel about pregnancy sex. My husband is never the one who initiates now. But I think it has to do with the fact that he is ASLEEP in the early am. He stays up late, but I'm pretty sure he doesn't wake me at night because I am so tired and he wants me to rest. Also might have something to do with the first trimester. I made it pretty clear that I knew he liked my new big boobs, but if he touched them, it wouldn't turn out good for him. They hurt so bad!!! But maybe something else is going on in his head he doesn't want to tell me about????
My husband kind of laughed at me the other day. I said "we're running out of time!!!" He said, "is that what is going on???" I guess I've kind of kicked it into high gear knowing that we will have to refrain for awhile after I give birth. It's kind of a sensitive issue for me because I was in a sexless relationship for 6 years. I NEVER want that to happen again!